The Danish Girl vs the True Story of Lili Elbe, Gerda Wegener (2023)

*Note: Throughout the article below, we mostly refer to Lili Elbe/Einar Wegener as "he." This was not done to disrespect Lili's identity as a woman, but merely to lessen the confusion for those who are not familiar with her story.

Questioning the Story:

Did Einar Wegener's transition into Lili Elbe really begin by chance when his wife's model didn't show up?

Yes. The Danish Girl true story reveals that the model who failed to show up was Anna Larssen, a popular actress and friend of the couple. This is believed to have happened around 1908. On the telephone, Anna Larssen suggested to Gerda that the thin-framed Einar stand in for her. Einar hesitated at first, but he eventually succumbed to his wife's pleas, donning a pair of stockings and heels. "I cannot deny, strange as it may sound, that I enjoyed myself in this disguise," Einar wrote. "I liked the feel of soft women's clothing. I felt very much at home in them from the first moment." Einar began to pose for Gerda on an ongoing basis, and after a few years, he began to dress as a woman on a regular basis outside of being his wife's model. -Man into Woman

The real Lili Elbe (right) and actor Eddie Redmayne as Elbe in The Danish Girl movie.

Did a friend of the couple really come up with the name Lili?

Yes. In real life, the couple's actress friend, Anna Larssen, unexpectedly arrived at the studio when Einar was standing in for her. She nicknamed her stand-in "Lili" and Gerda encouraged it. (Amber Heard's character, Ulla Paulson, was inspired by Anna Larssen.) Anna reportedly told Einar (whose full name was Einar Magnus Andreas Wegener), "You know, Andreas, you were certainly a girl in a former existence, or else Nature has made a mistake with you this time." As for the surname, Elbe comes from the name of the river that runs through Dresden, the German city where the last of Einar's sex change operations took place, where he was "reborn" as Lili. -Man into Woman

The real Ulla Paulson (right), whose actual name is Anna Larssen, came up with the name Lili when she walked in on Einar modeling for Gerda. Amber Heard's character (left) was inspired by Larssen.

How did Einar meet his wife Gerda?

According to The Danish Girl true story, Einar Wegener met fellow artist Gerda Gottlieb when they both were attending the Royal Danish Academy of Fine Arts in Copenhagen. They dated for a few years and married in 1904 when Einar was 22 and Gerda was 19. -Daily Mail Online

Why did Einar Wegener want to become a woman?

The real Einar Wegener saw his female side as another person who was trapped inside of him. Helping his wife by standing in for an absent female model was the chance awakening that let loose his deep desire to become Lili. He attempted to suppress her but by February 1930, she was becoming too strong to resist. "I am finished," Einar wrote at the time. "Lili has known this for a long time. That's how matters stand. And consequently she rebels more vigorously every day."

Did Gerda feel that she was responsible for creating Lili?

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Yes, at least to some degree. Lili Elbe's autobiography Man into Woman quotes Gerda as saying, "In recent months I have felt prickings of conscience because I was, to a certain extent, the cause of creating Lili, of enticing her out of you, and thus becoming responsible for a disharmony in you which reveals itself most distinctly on those days when Lili does not appear."

The real Gerda Wegener (left) with her dog, and actress Alicia Vikander (right) as Gerda in the movie.

Could Einar's wife Gerda's lesbian tendencies have played a part in him wanting to become a woman?

The fact that Gerda Wegener may have been gay could have certainly played a part in Einar wanting to become a woman, in part to please Gerda, whose paintings and drawings often depicted explicit sexual scenes of women with women. (In the movie, Gerda says that kissing Einar for the first time was "like kissing myself," and she also gets turned on when she finds one of her negligees under Einar's shirt.) Yet, there is no hard evidence to prove that Gerda Wegener was indeed a lesbian, and she did remarry to a man after her 1930 divorce from Einar. It should also be stated that Einar's desire to become a woman could have encouraged this side of Gerda.

Did doctors label Einar as schizophrenic for wanting to be a woman?

Yes. In The Danish Girl movie, doctors and psychologists label Einar as schizophrenic in order to explain his "malady." They prescribe radiation therapy. This indeed echoes the real-life recommendations made by doctor's Einar met with. -Man into Woman

Did they tell people that Lili was Einar's cousin?

After arriving in Paris where their secret was not known, Gerda introduced Lili as her husband Einar's sister (in the movie, she is introduced as Einar's cousin). They attended artists balls and other social events together, where, like in The Danish Girl movie, Lili flirted with unsuspecting men.

Top: The real Gerda and Einar Wegener at an art exhibition in 1924. Bottom: Alicia Vikander and Eddie Redmayne portray the couple in The Danish Girl movie.

Did Einar Wegener plan to commit suicide if he could not physically become a woman?

Yes. In researching The Danish Girl true story, we learned that Einar even chose the date that he would kill himself, May 1, 1930 (Einar's desire to commit suicide is only briefly hinted at in the movie). This was after approximately two decades of believing that he was a woman trapped in a man's body, a feeling that grew stronger as the years passed. He could finally no longer suppress his female side. However, in February 1930, Einer learned of a doctor in Berlin who could possibly help. The doctor was Magnus Hirschfeld, a physician and sexologist who would soon supervise the operation to remove Einer's testicles.

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Was Lili Elbe/Einar Wegener really the first known recipient of sexual reassignment surgery?

This has been the subject of some debate. Born Einar Wegener, Lili Elbe underwent several gender reassignment operations in the early 1930s. While most articles support that Elbe was the first recipient of sexual reassignment surgery, states that Elbe was not the first recipient, but they don't state who was. According to The Danish Girl author David Ebershoff, "None of this had ever been done before, this idea of accomplishing a transition through surgery. There are just no records of anyone even thinking about that before this, so in some ways [Warnekros] was experimenting on Lili." Since Lili Elbe may have been intersex and already possessed rudimentary ovaries, some don't consider her surgical transformation a true sex change. -LOTL Magazine

Exactly how many operations did Einar Wegener endure to physically become a woman?

The exact number of operations Einar underwent to become a woman varies a little across reports, but most list the number at four or five. They were carried out over a period of roughly two years. The first involved removing his testicles (castration). It took place in 1930 in Berlin under the supervision of Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld at the German Institute for Sexual Science. The remaining surgeries were performed at the Dresden Municipal Women's Clinic by Dr. Kurt Warnekros (portrayed in the movie by Sebastian Koch), a German obstetrician. They included operations to remove the penis (penectomy), create a vagina, and implant an ovary onto the abdominal musculature. The final surgery was to transplant a womb (uterus) into Einar's body, which ultimately proved fatal.

The real Lili Elbe/Einar Wegener (left) endured a series of sex change surgeries. The last operation was to implant a womb (uterus), which ultimately proved fatal. Eddie Redmayne (right) embodies Elbe in The Danish Girl movie.

Did the real Lili Elbe/Einar Wegener pay for the gender reassignment operations by selling off some paintings?

Yes. The cost of the surgeries was around 5,000 kroner - about $18,350 in today's currency.

Did Lili Elbe's sex change operations really lead to her death?

Yes. The true story behind The Danish Girl confirms that Einar Wegener's transformation into Lili Elbe ultimately led to her death. She died from paralysis of the heart due to organ rejection roughly three months after undertaking her fifth and final sex-change operation in June 1931. The operation involved transplanting a womb (uterus) into her body in hopes that she could eventually bear children. "The fervent longing in my woman's life is to become the mother of a child," Lili wrote after the operations. (It would be nearly 50 more years before Ciclosporin, the drug that prevents organ rejection, was first used with success.)

Were Einar and Gerda really successful as artists?

Yes. Einar earned Denmark's Neuhausens prize for his landscape work in 1907 and exhibited at Kunstnernes Efteraarsudstilling (the Artists Fall Exhibition), as well as at the Vejle Art Museum and Salon d'Automme in Paris. In the early years of their marriage, Einar and Gerda earned a living by taking jobs as painters and illustrators for books and magazines such as Vogue.

Gerda's work was featured in the Charlottenborg Art Gallery (the Royal Danish Academy of Art's official exhibition gallery) and, in 1907, she claimed the top prize in a sketching contest in the Danish newspaper Politiken. These achievements helped her to rise to the top of the fashion magazine industry, with her illustrations capturing the Art Deco style of the time. Gerda became famous for her paintings of fashionable women with almond-shaped eyes. Little did people know that the attractive dark-haired woman often depicted in her work was actually her husband Einar. As he began to spend more time as Lili, he spent less and less time working as an artist himself. Though Gerda was more successful than Einar, her artistic style became less fashionable later in her life, and she eventually sold hand-painted Christmas cards to help make ends meet. Her final art exhibition was in 1939 in Copenhagen, the year before her death. -Daily Mail Online

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Why did Einar Wegener give up painting after he became Lili Elbe?

After Einar fully embodied his female alter ego Lili, she gave up painting because it was something that was a passion of Einar's, not Lili's. "It is not with my brain, not with my eyes, not with my hands that I want to be creative, but with my heart and with my blood," Lili wrote after the transformation, going on to express that she longed to become the mother of a child. She would die a short time later.

Lili Elbe did not embrace painting, since that was something that had been a part of Einar (left), who no longer existed. Eddie Redmayne (right) as Einar in The Danish Girl movie.

Did Einar Wegener face backlash for wanting to become a woman?

Yes. After news broke that Gerda Wegener's paintings of high-fashion women were done using her husband as the model, the gender-bending scandal forced the couple to leave Copenhagen in 1912 for the more accepting city of Paris ( After Einar's initial operations that began in 1930 to physically become Lili, many of Einar's male friends refused to associate with Lili, causing her to struggle with the notion that she had murdered Einar (

Did Einar really get beat up for wanting to be a woman?

Though the movie's incident is fictional, it has been reported that Einar Wegener looked feminine even when he wasn't dressing as a woman, to the point that he was abused in the streets of Paris because people thought he was a woman trying to dress in men's clothing. This natural feminine appearance is another reason that some people believe he was intersex (a less controversial term for a hermaphrodite), a person possessing physical, genetic and hormonal features of both men and women. -LOTL Magazine

Is it possible that Einar Wegener was a hermaphrodite (intersex individual)?

Yes. Lili Elbe/Einar Wegener suggests in her memoir that a pair of shrunken ovaries were discovered inside of her when the doctors were performing her sex change operations.

Did Einar Wegener succeed in legally changing his name and gender?

Prior to her death in 1931, Lili Elbe hoped to marry Claude Lejeune.

Yes, the real Einar Wegener legally changed his name and gender prior to his death. He was granted a new passport as a female under the name Lili Elbe. Since she was legally no longer Einar, she was unable to divorce Gerda (Lili had already moved out of the home that they shared). In October 1930, Christian X, the King of Denmark, granted a special decree that voided Einar Wegener's 1904 marriage to Gerda. With the king's annulment of their marriage, the divorce became official on October 6, 1930. Lili and Gerda parted on amicable terms.

Did Lili Elbe plan to remarry after the divorce from Gerda?

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Yes. Lili Elbe had fallen in love and planned to marry a man, an art dealer named Claude Lejeune, at least that was her hope. She died on September 13, 1931.

Did Einar Wegener's family accept his transformation into Lili Elbe?

During our investigation into The Danish Girl true story, we discovered that Einar's older sister accepted him as Lili, but not without struggle. Upon their first meeting, his sister warned him not to be angry if she was unable to call him Lili, since she longed for the familiarity of her brother Einar. His older brother was sympathetic to his identity as a woman. Einar's parents had passed away by that time.

Was Lili Elbe glad that she had the sex change operations?

Though she struggled with the thought that she had murdered Einer, the man she had once been, Lili expressed her happiness with her new identity three months prior to her death. "That I, Lili, am vital and have a right to life I have proved by living for 14 months," she wrote in a letter to a friend. "It may be said that 14 months is not much, but they seem to me like a whole and happy human life."

Several days before her death she mailed a letter to her sister. "Now I know that death is near," Lili wrote. "Last night I dreamt about Mother. She took me in her arms and called me Lili…and Father was also there…"

What happened to Gerda after the divorce?

In 1931, Gerda remarried an Italian officer named Fernando Porta, who burned through her savings. She divorced him in 1936 and died penniless in 1940.

Is The Danish Girl novel a good source of information on the true story?

No. David Ebershoff's 2001 novel on which the movie is based is itself a work of fiction that is only loosely inspired by Lili Elbe's true story. A better source for information is Lili Elbe's own autobiography, Man into Woman: The First Sex Change, which at the time of this article is not widely available. Niels Hoyer is often listed as the author, but that is a pseudonym for Ernst Ludwig Hathorn Jacobson, Lili's editor who assembled her letters, diary entries and dictated material to form the book.

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What is the true story of Lili Elbe? ›

She was the first known recipient of a uterus transplant in attempt to achieve pregnancy, but died due to the subsequent complications. The UK and US versions of her semi-autobiographical narrative were published posthumously in 1933 under the title Man into Woman: An Authentic Record of a Change of Sex.

Why did Einar have nosebleeds? ›

He also gets nosebleeds when over-excited like an anime character. A few doctors treat him like a crazy person, and when Einar has surgery to enable him to more fully become Lili, it is excruciating. Remember: this is 1930, without modern anesthetics and pain relief. But the surgery works.

What is the tragic true story behind The Danish Girl? ›

It's the story of transgender Danish artist Einar Wegener (1882-1931) who, identifying as a woman called Lili Elbe, underwent the first ever gender re-assignment surgery, a series of five experimental operations between 1930 and 1931 which led to her death soon after the final procedure.

What did they do to Lili in The Danish Girl? ›

The real Lili Elbe/Einar Wegener (left) endured a series of sex change surgeries. The last operation was to implant a womb (uterus), which ultimately proved fatal. Eddie Redmayne (right) embodies Elbe in The Danish Girl movie.

What happens at the end of The Danish Girl? ›

Gerda makes it to Dresden where Bolk reveals that Einar was supposed to be born as a woman as he had undeveloped ovaries in his body the whole time. Einar's ovaries are restored and he takes his last operation. It is successful and he fully becomes Lili. Lili and Gerda then return to Denmark.

How old was Lili Elbe when she died? ›

Why Hans Axgil kissed Einar when they were just kids? ›

Reconciling the notion of her husband's essential death, Gerda finds comfort in one of Einar's childhood friends, Hans Axgil (Matthias Schoenaerts), an art dealer who admits that, yes, he kissed Einar when they were kids because “he just looked so pretty.” Indeed, there can be no denying that Einar's feminine side has ...

Is Danish Girl based on true story? ›

"I made that film with the best intentions," he said of the 2015 film, adding, "But I think it was a mistake." Based on a true story, The Danish Girl starred the Oscar winner as Lili Elbe, a transgender woman who was one of the first people to undergo gender confirmation surgery, in 1930.

Is The Danish Girl inappropriate? ›

The Danish Girl is rated R by the MPAA for some sexuality and full nudity. Violence: - Portrayals of non-graphic violence. - Brief explicit violence.

Who is Gerda in The Danish Girl? ›

Gerda Wegener is portrayed by Swedish actress Alicia Vikander in the 2015 film The Danish Girl, also starring British actor Eddie Redmayne as Lili Elbe.

Why does Lili get nosebleed in The Danish Girl? ›

Lili's first kiss (to Ben Wishaw as a gay suitor) results in a nosebleed that suggests pathology over passion. (“I kissed him. It was the strangest thing. It was like kissing myself,” Wegener says with that unreadable Redmayne wink—is he putting-on?)

Was Gerda in love with Lili? ›

Lili's awakening did in fact begin when Gerda asked Einar to pose in women's clothing for one of her paintings, and Lili became a favorite subject of Gerda's. But while there was unconditional love between the two, the love story we have come to know is false.

Does Gerda stay with Lili? ›

Later that year the Danish king Christian X. dissolved the marriage between Gerda and Lili, as they were no longer husband and wife. Both found new partners. Lili started a relationship with a French art dealer, whom she wanted to marry and have children with.

Did Lili and Gerda stay married? ›

By law, Gerda and Lili had to have their marriage annulled before gender reassignment surgery could take place (same-sex partnerships wouldn't become legal in Denmark until 1989), but Gerda supported Lili and funded much of her surgery.

Did Lili and Gerda stay together? ›

Later that year the Danish king Christian X. dissolved the marriage between Gerda and Lili, as they were no longer husband and wife. Both found new partners. Lili started a relationship with a French art dealer, whom she wanted to marry and have children with.

Was Hans Axgil a real person? ›

The character Hans Axgil did not exist in her life and was merely a loose inspiration from Porta, though the real Fernando Porta was not a childhood friend of Einar/Lili. The surname Axgil is a reference to the Danish couple Axel and Eigil Axgil, the first gay couple ever to enter into a registered partnership.


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